Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

The best architecture is the one that doesn’t need explanation.

书籍是镜子：你只能从中看到你内心已有的东西。

"A novel is never finished; it is only abandoned."