Poetry is not a turning loose of emotion, but an escape from emotion; it is not the expression of personality, but an escape from personality.

我唱歌不是为了完美，而是为了连接。

帮我做出重大决定的最好工具，就是知道自己快死了。

The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.