If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.

对于行善，没有别人和自己的区分，抛弃自己的不对，接受人家对的，非常快乐地吸取别人的优点来做好事。

I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying.

解释：想要变得坚强，必定守住柔的一面；想要变得强大，一定保住弱的一面。