In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

I don't want to be a leader. I want to be a learner.

真正的智者，是知其然，也知其所以然。永远明白自己在做什么，要做什么！清醒，问心无愧，活得明明白白！

一些意志坚定的人在经受生离死别考验时表现出令人羡慕的顺从与刚毅。