The main task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control.
译文:做将帅的切勿骄傲自大,如果骄傲自大,待人接物就会有不周道的地方,有失礼之处,一朝失礼就会众叛亲离,人心愤懑相怨。