Generally speaking, envy, resentment, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thoughts.Self-pity gets fairly close to paranoia, and paranoia is one of the very hardest things to reverse.
Feelings are the subjective aspect of mental processes.
爱是完全接受一个人,包括他的缺点。
Will you play it safe, or will you be a little bit swashbuckling?