Suffering is the school of wisdom.
"The difference between a happy marriage and a miserable one... consists of about ten continued acts of stupidity or kindness, depending on the direction."
We don't do style, we do investigations.
回忆这东西若是有气味的话,那就是樟脑的香,甜而稳妥,像记得分明的快乐,甜而怅惘,像忘却了的忧愁。
Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice; take each man’s censure,but reserve thy judgment.
It's on the strength of observation and reflection that one finds a way. So we must dig and delve unceasingly.