Leadership is not about being in charge. It's about taking care of those in your charge.
孩子完全接受——甚至渴望——家规。「在我们家,我们对 X 有一个规矩」是家长设立家庭规范时所需的唯一理由。事实上,「我对 X 有一个规矩」是你给自己设定规范所需的唯一理由。
To be an artist you have to give up everything, including the desire to be a good artist.