Only when a person is in a state of dependence is weak, if he is unrestrained, do not rely on other people's words, he is very strong.
人只有在处于依赖状态的时候才是柔弱的,如果他无拘无束,不依赖他人的话,他早就是很强壮的了。
我想知道我一生中看过多少人,却从未真正看见过他们。
After all, life is never so jolly or so miserable as people seem to think.