孔子说:“君子坦荡而不骄狂,小人骄狂而不坦荡。”
I truly believe that women should be financially independent from their men. And let's face it, money gives men the power to run the show. It gives men the power to define value. They define what's sexy. And men define what's feminine. It's ridiculous.
There are no solutions. There are only trade-offs.