【译文】忍下一时的怨气，可以免除长久的忧患。遇到不利的情况学学乌龟，该缩头的时候就要把头缩回去。

I love being a woman, and I love being in control.

You're on earth. There's no cure for that.

One must have chaos within oneself to give birth to a dancing star.

对死亡的恐惧源于对生活的恐惧。活得充实的人随时准备死亡。

You know, I'm not always going to be around to help you...

At that age， I'd take any excuse to make estimates and do minor arithmetic. I'd calculate our gas mileage -- figure out useless statistics on things like grocery spending. I'd been hearing an ad campaign about smoking. I can't remember the details， but basically the ad said， every puff of a cigarette takes some number of minutes off of your life: I think it might have been two minutes per puff. At any rate， I decided to do the math for my grandmother. I estimated the number of cigarettes per days， estimated the number of puffs per cigarette and so on. When I was satisfied that I'd come up with a reasonable number， I poked my head into the front of the car， tapped my grandmother on the shoulder， and proudly proclaimed， "At two minutes per puff， you've taken nine years off your life！"

The self grows through dialogue with others and with the world.

自由并不意味着有权做任何你想做的事情，而是有权做正确的事情。