To change one's life: Start immediately. Do it flamboyantly. No exceptions.
虚心和实腹的义理都很深奥,但首先要通过虚心才能认识本心。
回答 "我现在应该做什么?"的唯一有效的方式是首先回答 "我想成为谁?"的问题。
Rest satisfied with doing well, and leave others to talk of you as they please.