The fundamental 'formula' of Gestalt theory might be expressed in this way: There are wholes, the behavior of which is not determined by that of their individual elements, but where the part-processes are themselves determined by the intrinsic nature of the whole.
You're different by nature. You don't have to hide.
"Life is tough, my darling, but so are you."
Language evolved to allow us to gossip.
We live in the best of all possible worlds because it was chosen from all possible worlds.