【译文】 孔子说：“君子通晓道义，小人通晓私利。”

Before you are old， attend as many funerals as you can bear， and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.

被省略的东西和包含的东西一样重要。

幸福不在于强度，而在于平衡、秩序、节奏与和谐。