I'm not afraid of others saying I'm not good enough, I'm afraid that I'm not good enough myself.
个人的就是历史的,历史的也是个人的。
Once you've accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you.
出自北齐·颜之推《颜氏家训·教子》。慈,慈爱。则,那么。畏慎,畏惧、谨慎。矣,句末语气助词。父母有威严也有慈爱,那么子女就会畏惧、谨慎而生孝顺之心。孝子是靠严格而慈祥的方法培养出来的,不是一味溺爱就能教育出来的。