When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.

最终，我们将记住的不是敌人的话语，而是朋友的沉默。

There are two kinds of violence of peace， that is the law and etiquette.

写作的行为是一种抵抗的行为。