Silence is the language of god, all else is poor translation.
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great, or do you try something new? Do you make what you know will sell or try something new? Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met? The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive, but aim for 1/3.
Tradition and innovation must walk hand in hand to create lasting value.
But nothing that can be said can begin to take away the anguish and the pain of these moments. Grief is the price we pay for love.
The energy you put out is the energy you get back.
《诗经》上说“必须选择所使用的染料,必须谨慎地来浸染”,就是这个意思。