独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾，但并非如此。这是一个存在的真理：只有那些能够独处的人，才能爱，分享，进入另一个人最深的核心——而不占有对方，不依赖对方，不将对方物化，不对对方上瘾。

The coldest winter I ever spent was a summer in San Francisco.

Data-driven fisheries management is the lighthouse guiding us through stormy seas.

You have to write the book that wants to be written. And if the book will be too difficult for grown-ups, then you write it for children.