To find yourself，think for yourself.

我不是同性恋偶像。我是任何相信平等的人的偶像。

You have to stay true to yourself and your vision.

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.