【释义】做官要关心百姓，居家要照顾家人，做事要顾及自身。

Not necessarily your mother, or indeed mine, but, as it were, the ideal mother, somebody who doesn't care about your achievements. Unfortunately, most people are not our mothers. Most people make a strict correlation between how much time, and if you like, love -- not romantic love, though that may be something -- but love in general, respect --they are willing to accord us, that will be strictly defined by our position in the social hierarchy.

译文：今生我虽然不能身为男子，加入他们的行列，但我的心却比男子还要刚烈。