The best way to get out of a situation is to never get into it in the first place.

我不记仇，我只记得事实。

Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that motherfucker's reflection.

爱护自己的体面不如注重廉耻；求医用药不如善养性情；结党营私不如昭示信义；作威作福不如诚恳笃实；过多的表白不如谨小慎微；巧取声名不如矫正自己心念；恣意于奢侈恣逸，不如从名教中自取其乐；安置田宅不如给儿孙多施家教。

For those who do return back to the countryside, they find themselves very welcome locally, because with the knowledge, skills and networks they have learned in the cities, with the assistance of the Internet, they're able to create more jobs, upgrade local agriculture and create new business in the less developed market.

The strengths approach is about identifying what is right with people and building on those qualities.