爱不是一种职业，它是一种状态。

You have to stand up and say, 'There's nothing wrong with me or my shape or who I am, you're the one with the problem!'

静坐的时候才知道平日的心浮气躁，独自呆着不说话才知道平日言语暴躁多话。反省行为才知道平日心情忙乱，闭门拒绝客友才知平日交友泛滥。少欲望才知道平日多病。近人情才知道平日待人处事的苛刻。