Reality is always richer and more complex than fiction.
A ship in port is safe, but that is not what ships are built for.
再说,义就是匡正的意思,不能以下正上,必须是以上正下。 
解释:对别人没有恩德,却想有求于人,这是罪过。
I've learned that you have to be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it.
I have always been fascinated by the darker side of human nature.