没有什么比女人有幽默感—或男人没幽默感更破坏爱情的。+
Nothing spoils a romance so much as sense of humour in the woman—or the want of it in the man.
我们不是短暂拥有灵魂的躯体。我们是短暂拥有躯体的灵魂。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great, or do you try something new? Do you make what you know will sell or try something new? Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met? The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive, but aim for 1/3.