第一次与巴尔蒂人喝茶，你是陌生人；第二次，你是尊贵的客人；第三次，你成为家人。
The first time you share tea with a Balti, you are a stranger. The second time, you are an honored guest. The third time you become family.
君子学习贵在能够专一，专一便能够明达，明达之后便能够有所收获。
这就是痛苦的特性，它要求被感受到。
Swim upstream. Go the other way. Ignore the conventional wisdom. If everybody else is doing it one way, there's a good chance you can find your niche by going in exactly the opposite direction.