除非一个人爱另一个人，否则他无法完全意识到另一个人的本质。
No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him.
The novel is not the author's confession; it is an investigation of human life in the trap the world has become.
对于任何事务，要改变它就要先接受它。谴责不会解放而只会压迫。
Representation of the world, like the world itself, is the work of men; they describe it from their own point of view, which they confuse with the absolute truth.
译文：蛮横无理的泼妇，啼哭怒骂的招数不过是那些而已，只要静下心来，镇定自若，泰然处之，她们便会自觉终止。挑拨离间，搬弄是非的人，情况看上去虽然很紧迫，但如果能淡然处之，置之不理，那些人就会自觉没趣，立马消失。赏析：世上什么样的人都有，我们越较真，对方越会咬着不放，只要我们不予理睬，看淡别人的嬉笑怒骂，无视别人的挑拨离间，对方就会自讨没趣，事情就会顺遂如意。
当墓地里最有钱的人对我并不重要。对我来说，重要的是夜晚入睡前能为自己达到的成就喝采。