I've learned that you can't control what other people think of you, but you can control what you think of yourself.
我学会了你不能控制别人对你的看法,但你可以控制你对自己的看法。
凡事需多听但少言;聆听他人之意见,但保留自己之判断。
你不能用消极的心态过积极的生活。
To be free is not to have the power to do anything you want, but to have the power to do what is right.