"Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real."
爱是一种极其困难的领悟:除了自己之外还有其他真实存在。
The most damaging phrase in the language is: 'It's always been done this way.'
The idea that we will make a society where literally everybody is graded, the good at the top, bad at the bottom, exactly done as it should be, is impossible. There are simply too many random factors: accidents, accidents of birth, accidents of things dropping on people's heads, illnesses, etc. We will never get to grade them, never get to grade people as they should.