语言既是武器也是创伤,取决于谁握着笔。
"Language is both a weapon and a wound; it depends on who holds the pen."
心理学必须植根于生物学才能成为真正的科学。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great, or do you try something new? Do you make what you know will sell or try something new? Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met? The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive, but aim for 1/3.
The more you speak, the more likely you are to say something foolish.