"The writer's job is to get the main character up a tree, and then once they are up there, throw rocks at them."
作家的任务是把主角弄到树上,然后一旦他们上去了,就朝他们扔石头。
大自然的铁律是:有得必有失 如果你想让蚂蚁来,你就在地上放糖。
这就好像自己赤裸着身体却指责别人掀起衣服不礼貌一样。 
The only limits that exist are the ones you place on yourself.
I don't believe in pessimism. If something doesn't come up the way you want, forge ahead. If you think it's going to rain, it will.
损失厌恶的概念解释了为什么我们通常更倾向于避免损失而不是获得收益。