One isn't born one's self. One is born with mass of expectations, a mass of other people's ideas—and you have to work through it all.
你一生中最起码要做的事情是弄清楚你所希望的。而你能做的最多的事情就是活在那个希望之中。不是远远地欣赏它,而是直接生活在它的庇护之下。