你必须能够自嘲，不要把自己看得太认真。
You have to be able to laugh at yourself, to not take yourself too seriously.
"The key to success is to focus on goals, not obstacles."
I'm a control freak. I admit it.
【解释】有腐草和粪料的土地，植物繁茂生长；清澈见地的河流，常常不会有鱼虾。君子应有包容世间善恶、雅俗、是非的胸襟，不可追求绝对的完美，而脱离实际。