"The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there."
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.
我想澄清一下:我不会因为父母的观点,而责怪他们。埋怨父母给你指错方向是有一个时间段的。当你成长到可以控制自我方向的时候,你就要自己承担责任了。