Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.
每个人都有不为世人所知的秘密悲伤；我们常常称一个人冷漠，而实际上他只是悲伤。
The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success.
Do not do to others what angers you if done to you by others.