Don’t tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results.
不要告诉别人怎么做，告诉他们做什么，让他们用结果给你惊喜。
"In the end, we are all alone with our choices."
Life in the state of nature is solitary， poor， nasty， brutish， and short.
I like to tell a story and not explain it.