当我们发现保持不变比改变更痛苦时，我们就会改变自己的行为。
We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
恐惧是自由的敌人。
The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success.