变化是不可避免的，但进步是一种选择。

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

最好的故事是那些在我们读完很久之后仍萦绕在心头的故事。