唯一阻止你得到你想要的东西的是你一直告诉自己的故事。
The only thing that’s keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself.
They just keep trotting back and forth across the bridge thinking there is something better on the other side. If they'd hang head down at the top of the thing and wait quietly, maybe something good would come along. But no—with men it's rush, rush, rush, every minute. I'm glad I'm a sedentary spider.