The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.

秋天已经结束，白昼仍然漫长，王粲（字仲宣）怀念远方的心情更加凄凉

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says: 'I need you because I love you.'

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