独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但其实不是。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人才能爱,才能分享,才能深入另一个人的内心深处——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
烘焙应该是有趣的,而不是有压力的。
我们恨一个人,其实是在他的形象里恨我们自己内心的东西。
一个个都说∶我是向上效法了尧.舜.夏禹.商汤.周文王.周武王的大道。”但所说的话却是互相攻击的,所行的事是截然相反的。
Never underestimate the power of small, consistent steps toward a larger goal.
我花得最好的一分钟是投资在人们身上的那一分钟。
A poet's work is to name the unnameable, to point at frauds, to take sides, start arguments, shape the world, and stop it going to sleep.
心灵是一个可以在多个层次上分析的复杂系统。