人生的主要任务就是：识别和区分事物，这样我就能清楚地告诉自己哪些是外部不可控的，哪些是我实际可控的选择。
The main task in life is simply this: to identify and separate matters so that I can say clearly to myself which are externals not under my control, and which have to do with the choices I actually control.
幸福婚姻和痛苦婚姻的区别...在于大约十个持续的愚蠢或善良行为，取决于方向。
Life is a balance between what we can control and what we cannot. I am learning to live between effort and surrender.
Spend each day trying to be a little wiser than you were when you woke up.Discharge your duties faithfully and well.Systematically you get ahead, but not necessarily in fast spurts...At the end of the day if you live long enough most people get what they deserve.