誉人不增其美,则闻者不快其意;毁人不益其恶,则听者不惬於心。
解释:称赞人不夸大他好的地方,那么听的人心里不痛快;诽谤人不增加他的过错,那么听的人心里不满足。
Everyone is shy. Other people are waiting for you to introduce yourself to them, they are waiting for you to send them an email, they are waiting for you to ask them on a date. Go ahead.
I'm not here to please everyone, I'm here to be true to myself.
在我看来,问题在于你被灌输了这样的信念:你所做的事情至关重要。但这全是无稽之谈。
"The human heart is a mystery, even to itself."