【大意】一定要等到西施、毛嫱那样的美女作配偶，那么就终身不能成家了。
自我并非固定不变的实体，而是我们随时间构建的叙事。
In distributed systems, the key challenge is achieving consensus among unreliable components.
我们无法改变我们没有意识到的事情，而一旦我们意识到，我们就不能不改变。
天地本有固定的运行规律，日月本有自身的光明，星辰本有自身的序列，禽兽各有群体，树木本就直立，先生你也依仿自然天性行事，顺着自然规律前进，这已经是极好的了。
We need to reshape our own perception of how we view ourselves. We have to step up as women and take the lead.
There is no love that’s so right as admiration-based love, and that love should include the instructive dead. Somehow, I got that idea and I lived with it all my life and it’s been very very useful to me.
Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.