You have to be true to yourself. Strong enough to be true to yourself. Brave enough to be strong enough to be true to yourself. Healthy enough to be brave enough to be strong enough to shape yourself from what you actually are.
The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.
The advance of technology is based on making it fit in so that you don't really even notice it, so it's part of everyday life.