译文：做事要三思而后行，否则就会后悔，人要善于忍耐才不会有忧患。赏析：不管是说话还是做事，我们都要三思，不经过大脑的话和事只会伤害别人。忍一时风平浪静，事事都要争个输赢，只会两败俱伤。

The more you know yourself, the more patience you have for what you see in others.

For me they normally happen, these career crises, often, actually, on a Sunday evening, just as the sun is starting to set, and the gap between my hopes for myself and the reality of my life starts to diverge so painfully that I normally end up weeping into a pillow.