我不会成为那种回首往事时说"我本应该那样做"的人。
In other words, hold your horses when you're coming to judge people. You don't necessarily know what someone's truevalue is. That is an unknown part of them, and we shouldn't behave as though it is known. There is another source of solace and comfort for all this. When we think about failing in life, when we think about failure, one of the reasons why we fear failing is not just a loss of income, a loss of status. What we fear is the judgment and ridicule of others. And it exists.
翻译:君子说话要谨慎,饮食要节制。
The only limit to our realization of tomorrow is our doubts of today.
心灵不是一块白板,而是一个不断适应和重组自身的动态系统。
作家的任务不是评判,而是理解。