求学的最大益处，在于自我改变气质。

所有痛苦都源自渴望、执着与欲望。

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

I don’t care about rankings. I care about playing well.