Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything—all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure—these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
We should follow whatever seems probable， and avoid whatever seems improbable.
"Men and women differ in their desires for short-term mating because the reproductive benefits and costs differed for our ancestors."
The best stories are those that leave room for the audience to complete them.