To find yourself,think for yourself.
I have always been alone, but I have never been lonely.
"The best stories are those that challenge us to see the world differently."
Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.