【原文】宰予昼寝。子曰:“朽木不可雕也,粪土之墙不可圬也,于予与何诛?”【译文】宰予白天睡觉。孔子说:“真像腐朽的木头一样无法再雕琢,像粪墙一样不能再粉刷了,对于宰予这个人,我还责备他什么呢?”孔子又说:“开始时我对于人,是听了他的话就相信他的行为;现在我对于人,是听了他的话,还要观察他的行为。宰予使我改变了观察人的方法。”
我的观察是每当某个任务一个人就可以完成… 两个人就会做得更差,三个或更多人时则几乎没什么行动。
建立习惯的目的,是不用自我谈判,不在决定做一件事上花费精力,你直接就做了。好的习惯包括讲真话、用牙线。
The first fruit of this imagination - and the first lesson of the social science that embodies it - is the idea that the individual can understand his own experience and gauge his own fate only by locating himself within his period, that he can know his own chances in life only by becoming aware of those of all individuals in his circumstances.
I'm the reason your preacher can't preach.